Valentines Day: Breaking the stigma

Valentine’s Day is very often a dreamt up romance with roses and an intimate dinner for two. Typically the person sat opposite is a partner or a love interest, but is that missing the point and should we celebrate everyone that we love in our lives? 

The root of this holiday is the well-known story of Cupid and true love. So if we rely on that, this holiday is for partners only. But in recent years, we have seen more relationships being recognised on this day. 

We’ve all heard of ‘galentine’s day’ - a fairly new concept in which we take the time to show our girl friends all our affection and gratitude. It’s perfect for single girlies who still want in on the action but also for those in relationships who want to feel extra special. 

It’s not out of the bounds of reality to think that we can extend this idea to others in our lives - parents, grandparents, siblings etc. After all, a bunch of flowers and some chocolates can make everyone feel special no matter the day. 

There’s no reason to change the way we celebrate our partners just because we are sharing the day with our friends. But I think it’s important that we recognise anybody who is there for us and loves us, regardless of the person and the relationship. Even a card can make you feel good about yourself. 

However, sometimes you may find all of your friends are loved up and busy on Feb 14th with dinner reservations and you just don’t want to feel alone. 

Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, use Valentine’s Day to show love for yourself. Go for a spa session, get your nails done, buy yourself a gift, or go to your favourite restaurant and have dinner on your own. Dress up and take yourself on a date - you can definitely feel special and loved by you rather than by someone else.

Valentine’s Day can be a special and beautiful holiday for everyone regardless of your relationship status. Celebrate everyone you love doing something that you love and have a great day regardless! 

Edited by Charlotte Smith