You are not doing Uni wrong

University is often sold as the “best years of your life”. A time packed with unforgettable

nights out, lifelong friendships and constant excitement. From open days to social media, the message is clear - this is your moment, and you need to make the most of it. However, for many students, these expectations can feel exhausting.

The pressure to have the “perfect” uni experience shows up in small, everyday ways. Saying

yes to every social plan, even when you’re burnt out. Feeling guilty for staying in while others go out. Comparing your life to TikToks or Instagram posts where everyone else seems to be thriving socially, academically and personally. It creates an unspoken and unrealistic standard that uni life should always be busy, fun and fulfilling.

In reality, university is far more complex. It’s a constant mix of highs and lows filled with

exciting independence alongside homesickness; strong friendships alongside loneliness and motivation alongside stress. Not every week is going to feel meaningful or memorable, and that’s normal. The idea that every moment should be maximised can make you feel like you are somehow doing uni “wrong” if you are not constantly happy or productive.

What’s often overlooked is that a “perfect” experience looks different for everyone. For some, it’s big nights out and a packed social calendar. For others, it’s quiet routines, a few close friendships and personal growth. There is no correct option, every student’s experience is unique and valid.

Don’t get me wrong, I love university and I adore Sheffield. For me, these are and have been

some of the best years of my life. I’ve also had some of the most stressful, lonely and

challenging days of my life too. Life isn’t a picture perfect instagram post, but genuine

happiness that can manifest in various different way.

Edited by Abi Hall